When most people tell you “GET A DIVORCE, GET A DIVORCE,” don’t forget it’s your marriage, and not theirs. You actually wonder why they are not divorced already, because what such people are facing in their own marriage is usually worse than yours.
Most married couples will rather stay married if they find help in doing so. If you meet someone who is divorced today, and you really make them comfortable in speaking with you, you will be surprised to hear them tell you that they wished their marriage had worked, and and had rather stayed in it.
Lawrenta and I stayed back in our marriage, because the love of God comes through for us. We can’t boast that we always know what to do, all we know is that right from the beginning divorce had never being an option for us, we always want to be together despite the fact that we didn’t always know how to be together, but as we open up to God, we keep realising that He is pleased to live with us in our marriage in a functional way. By now I am sure some of you reading this know that it’s not every married couple that is living together that is really together, because some are living in conflicts, and that’s very sad. Sad because you want something so much, yet it seems out of your reach.
Do you know that most people having affairs right now will rather prefer to be with their spouse, despite the fact that the person they are cheating with is richer, more amiable, more understanding, seems more interesting, more helpful, gives more attention to them than their spouse?
The good news is Lawrenta and I can help you stay married at a time when most people only prepare for the wedding and not for the marriage (we have actually being together since July 1996). When most people tell you “GET A DIVORCE, GET A DIVORCE,” don’t forget it’s your marriage, and not theirs. You actually wonder why they are not divorced already, because what such people are facing in their own marriage is usually worse than yours.
Sometimes we believe you may need to leave for a while, depending on how hostile the situation is at home, but don’t even do that if you are not working with someone who can help you and your spouse through while seperated, otherwise it will only be a futile mission, just for you to return back with nothing achieved.
Let’s help you “End the difficult moments you are going through with your spouse, without ending your Marriage.” – Jerome Yaovi Onipede.
There’s also lots of HOPE for you if you are already divorced.
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